there is a 'you' or 'me' actually.
it is just that for atheists, this 'you' only last when we are
alive.
for most of the masses, they feel that 'they' is an entity that
continues to exist and think after the death. Its quite a scary
notion to think that 'you' will extinct upon death. For me, I have
experienced this many years ago and a few times subsequently so I
am more acceptant to this fact liao. You can say that i am
enlightened liao 
